Warmth on a Cold Day

I created and performed a funeral ceremony for a wonderful family in November last year.  The tribute was so full of humour and love that it warmed us all on a very windy, cold day.

“Sarah was very sensitive, caring and her approach was completely appropriate for a time of great vulnerability.  She has a good sense of humour and made me feel very comfortable given that we had never met before.  I would thoroughly recommend her.”

Thank you

What a wonderful service you did.  Everyone was touched by the sentiments and content and said how it summed him up exactly.The whole family  have therefore asked me to thank you from all our hearts for such a memorable “Celebration” of our son’s Life.
Over 175 people attended the ceremony  as this young man was so popular.  It was also recorded on DVD to send to friends and family who couldn’t make the day.  The poem “The Dash” was a heartfelt addition to the ceremony.

The Dash by Linda Ellis 

I read of a man who stood to speak

at the funeral of a friend.

He referred to the dates on the tombstone

from the beginning…to the end.


He noted that first came the date of birth

and spoke the following date with tears,

but he said what mattered most of all

was the dash between those years.


For that dash represents all the time

that they spent alive on earth.

And now only those who loved them

know what that little line is worth.


For it matters not, how much we own,

the cars…the house…the cash

What matters is how we live and love

and how we spend our dash.


So, think about this long and hard.

Are there things you’d like to change?

For you never know how much time is left

that can still be rearranged.


If we could just slow down enough

to consider what’s true and real

and always try to understand

the way other people feel.


And be less quick to anger

and show appreciation more

and love the people in our lives

like we’ve never loved before. 


If we treat each other with respect

and more often wear a smile,

remembering that this special dash

might only last a little while.


So, when your eulogy is being read,

with your life’s actions to rehash…

would you be proud of the things they say

about how you spent YOUR dash?

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